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Looking for some feedback from the DID community:


We are having trouble lately with blurring at work. Our main fronter is an actor and does all the work for that, but at our day job (dog bathing), other folks are better suited (plus D is just tired).

I think the trouble may be that it’s been too long since anyone but D has fronted for long periods. Pathway in the brain is well carved. But because he is tired and not so well-suited, he retreats without someone else to properly take control, and we’re left with either the Hollow (no people, just autopilot), Person Soup (too many people at once, very disorienting), or rapid switching.


What do you folks do to solidify habitual fronting?

lesbiansylki:

“When I hear DID explained, I often hear people start with the DSM-V – the manual that mental health professionals use to diagnose mental illness. However, a diagnostic definition is going to focus on the abnormal, the alien, and the disordered, and apply that to the person who has the disorder. This can be a dangerous starting point for examining a media portrayal, particularly one like Moon Knight, where the interpretation of Spector’s pathology has changed over the history of the character.

"I’d like to try a thought experiment instead, beginning with the popular understanding of the disease. The classic metaphor of DID is that of a ‘shattered mind’, like Jekyll and Hyde, as if the identity of the person was a plate once, and something took a hammer and broke it into a series of unusable fragments, waiting to be reassembled to allow a person to live a healthy life. The mental health profession used this type of metaphor to explain DID for a long time – a child has something happen to them that’s so terrible that it just ‘breaks their mind,’ and they have to hobble along broken-minded until they find someone to help them glue it back together.

"This is problematic in two ways: first, it’s exceptionally disempowering to those of us who are supposed to just be wandering broken plates. Sometimes this interpretation manifests in visions of fragile, emotionally and mentally crippled people, waiting for someone to save them. Alarmingly more often in the media, it paints a bogeyman story of a perfectly reasonable person who could, at any moment, transform into a violent monster, a la the previously mentioned Jekyll and Hyde, or in Marvel, something like Typhoid Mary.

"But beyond this danger, the metaphor is simply not a very accurate representation of how DID begins. The truth is that newer research both into DID and child development generally suggests that DID occurs when the child is so young that (to stretch the metaphor) they don’t even have a ‘plate’ yet. They just have a big lump of clay, waiting to be sculpted into a plate.

"Children beneath a certain age have an amorphous, plastic identity, not yet formed into a single coherent self in the adult sense. In normal development, this means they can work with their parents, who will expose them to new experiences while helping them to learn to cope with these experiences. The end state of this process is that the child can foster a single identity, equipped with the tools to handle most of what life throws at it.

"Of course, some people don’t have that support – some, instead, are compelled to cope with truly terrible things before they’ve ever had the chance to form that cohesive identity. In this case, the child may have no choice but to make their own tools without the benefit of help from an adult. There are many forms this can take. Dissociative Identity Disorder is one such form.

"In DID, the child basically makes identities on the fly to fit different situations as they arise, allowing them the emotional distance to try to integrate a life experience so painful and contradictory that it can’t be resolved by the child into a single cohesive story.”

— Lucy Pinlyn, excerpt from “DID in Moon Knight, Part 1: An Overview” (2022, Comic Book Herald)

celestialodysseys:

Was thinking about a few posts I’ve seen that are something like “why isn’t anyone noticing Steven’s very obvious psychological issues” and how being forgetful, disoriented, confused, exhausted, etc are very much chalked up to “this person is inconsiderate and irresponsible” or “this person is a Mess and needs to try harder” irl, so the fact no one has asked Steven what’s going on with him is very realistic imo as someone who also exhibits these symptoms (tho not as extreme as Steven) as a person with OSDD 1b.

But then I was like well but they’re talking in different accents with people, so yeah shouldn’t someone be realizing something is going on?

And then I was reminded that when we worked at Starbucks, our alter Zhypher would often triggered out midway through our shifts. Zhypher has a British accent. We are American. Not a single one of my coworkers ever asked me about it.

Just something I was thinking about.

Well, I’m jealous; people ask me about it all the time. I’m British, body is American. I am the main fronter, and I’ve built a career and a life here, and in spaces pertaining to said career, everyone knows me as English. In some other spaces, though, where other people front much of the time (like my day job), they think I’m American, and people notice if they hear me. I wish they’d just let it go so I don’t have to try to explain it away (we are absolutely not out to most people about this).

-D

system-splintered:

DID systems - please reblog this if you have DID/OSDD and you don’t post much syscourse. My blog has been overrun and I’m really hoping there’s still a community of people posting jokes, helpful tips, and other DID content.

We don’t post much at all, but that means no syscourse! XD But if you’re looking for friends/connections, we’re a mature system (body in mid thirties) who has lived with this for two decades and enjoys having people to talk with about it.

bogleech:

scarlet-rosepetals:

aevios:

ruusverd:

godesssiri:

darkvioletcloud:

sabelmouse:

This fake yarn is supposedly better for sheep.

Aimed at people who don’t know where wool comes from, it’s 100% plastic. Yes, plastic.

So any garment you wash will release microfibres into the sea. It’ll never decompose.

You’re supposed to believe that sheep shearing is violent and cruel. There are imbeciles out there that work in an unprofessional manner while shearing, but that’s not the case overall.

Sheep don’t suffer from having their fleece removed.

Left on, the fleece can become a home for fly eggs and the subsequent maggots which can eat the sheep. Chemical treatments are available to prevent that happening. It’s much better for the sheep, the land and the farmer to avoid chemical use.

Don’t be fooled. Wool is a sustainable material, one we should make more and better use of.

Any garment you wash will release microfibres into the sea. It’ll never decompose.

This is very important.

And you need to wash acrylic wool garment more often than natural wool. They get stinky way more easily.

In my almost-decade of owning sheep, there have been exactly two(2) bad shearers try to start up in the area. Know what happened? The first farm they went to called every other shepherd in the area and said “This guy cut one of my sheep and didn’t think it was a big deal, don’t hire him.” And neither of them ever did business in the area again.

Some farmers are less conscientious than they should be about taking care of their stock, and the occasional tiny nick will happen, but no one is going to hire a shearer who is a) incompetent enough and b) uncaring enough to actually injure the animals to the point of bleeding, let alone the kind of horrors the internet claims.

Also, most breeds of sheep will literally die if they go too long without being sheared. PETA (and let’s face it, most of this anti-wool stuff can be traced back to deliberate misinformation from PETA) doesn’t care if sheep die, they have openly stated that they would prefer every domestic species that can no longer survive without humans go extinct rather than live in “"slavery.”“

Humans and sheep have lived together for over ten thousand years, they’ve been domesticated longer than dogs! Their lives consist of doing whatever the heck they want (for the most part they only want to walk, eat, sleep, play, and make lambs) while being fed and cared for, for the low price of having their hair cut once a year. Why would anyone boycott this natural, biodegradable fiber humans have been using for so long to the benefit of both species, in favor of plastics that are killing the planet??

[ID= synthetic yarn with labels that say “Happy Sheep” on the front and “No sheep were sheared to make this yarn, so rest assured they’re all snuggly and warm in their own wooly jumpers tonight.” on the back /end ID]

Not to mention shearing most often happens in the spring, specifically to prepare them for the warmer months so they’re, you know, actually comfortable. It isn’t exactly ideal to be “snuggly and warm in your own wooly jumper” in the middle of the fucking summer you piece of shit company.

Sheep also need shearing in the summer because of diseases and parasites like my friend here :)

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But yeah please buy real wool or at least not plastic.

Uh hey, if you know me in real life and have questions, I welcome you to DM me and chat. I am not public about stuff IRL because stigma, but I don’t mind talking about it.

I haven’t been active here in a long time; I should get back to it. It’s nice to have a place to just be open and talk about DID shit.

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